COMPATIBILITY & CONFLICT MARRIAGE & ROMANCE SAMPLE PRINTOUT:

Romantic Compatibility and Conflict Report for

Bill Clinton

and

Hillary Rodham Clinton


Birth Data for Bill:

Bill Clinton
19 August 1946
8:51
Hope, Arkansas


Birth Data for Hillary Rodham:

Hillary Rodham Clinton
26 October 1947
20:00
Chicago, Illinois

Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions

This section is based on the idea that there are three basic needs in every relationship:

  *  Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality.
  *   Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
  *  Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice versa.

The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects between their charts.

Bill's Sun Sextile Hillary Rodham's Asc.:

This aspect facilitates self-expression and social interaction between the two of you. You are together because you genuinely enjoy each other’s style and life direction. This aspect enhances the development of the personality and encourages a greater ease in expressing who you are in relation to another person. The purpose of this aspect is to enable and encourage  the development of personal expression and self-understanding. It is an aspect of enhancement and generosity. It develops and supports a fondness for similar attitudes and attributes, sharing common interests and feelings of happiness in each other's company. Essentially, this aspect is one of recognition and appreciation of each other’s unique personal abilities. You feel support from your partner to be who you are.

Hillary Rodham's Moon Trine Bill's Saturn:

The intention behind this aspect is building strong, lasting foundations and developing and maintaining emotional and material security. Mutual support for and commitment to the rules you’ve agreed to for your relationship will be easier to keep and are valuable to both of you. There is a natural tolerance for the inevitable problems of life and a decided lack of whining. Resolving issues and finding solutions together will become a core talent. Just be sure you don’t make more problems for yourselves because you’re so good at dealing with them or take on more responsibility than you ought. Others will find you a dependable pair and will look up to you and respect you. It would be easy for you, as a team, to take a leadership role of some kind in the community, since organization, reliability and planning are natural talents for you. This aspect contributes to longevity because the inclination to build a solid relationship is inherent in the combination. There is a greater chance of permanence for all your endeavors together because of the time, care and attention you put into them. With your skills of maintenance and self-improvement, you will accomplish much to ensure the longevity of your bond.

Bill's Moon Square Hillary Rodham's Saturn:

This aspect is a binding one but has its share of struggles. The bond is one of a perceived (or real) responsibility toward each other. The two of you will have challenges and obstacles to overcome and obligations to shoulder. In fact, obstacles or burdens may prevent you from culminating your relationship long term or they can make your relationship stronger, as you face them together. Some of the struggles this aspect draws concern the balance or relationship between your past history, your families or divergent career and domestic needs. You could have different feelings or definitions about the roles each of you should assume within the structure of your relationship. Faithfully seeking to determine what the most important priorities are between the two of you will help you separate the real issues from non-essential ones. Sometimes what initially appears to be an issue is, upon deeper scrutiny, a non-issue. Trust and responsibility are key factors in the success or failure of your relationship. The main purpose of this energy pattern between you is to help you develop a greater understanding of  trustworthiness and reliability, exactly what that means, and where and how these concepts fit into your relationship life together.

Bill's Sun Conj Hillary Rodham's Saturn:

You have come together to produce something lasting such as a project, a business or even a child. Your life together has a sobering quality and will demand responsibility and commitment on some important levels. There is an intrinsic level of commitment that becomes self-evident over the course of your relationship with each other and it may have been there right from the start. These feelings of an obligation or something you owe to the other are what bind you to your partner on a deep level. Your promises to each other will not be easily broken and often last a lifetime. If there is a change, you will each feel the seriousness of the breach and the important role of the relationship in your life. Achievement on some level of your own choosing will run like a thread through the fabric of your partnership, although each of you in your own way may rebel at the imposition of responsibility or the burdens you feel as a result of this energy you have chosen to express together. Development of responsibility, trust and a foundation of strength on an inner or outer level will be the harvest of your joining. Time and timing will be a core theme in your relationship. You may at times feel tested in your character and understand that you are meant to learn an important lesson together. Security, mutual respect and integrity are values demanding your attention and evolvement within your relationship.

Hillary Rodham's Sun Square Bill's Saturn:

There is a serious quality in your relationship and a strong bond with each other. You may feel obligated toward each other or there could be obstacles making it difficult for you to be together. It is important for you to determine the level of commitment and responsibility you are willing to make. There are bound to be some obstacles for you to overcome in your life together. You may find the challenges strengthening to your bond with each other or they may prove to be burdensome. You have chosen this level of relating in order to develop endurance, integrity or to build something lasting together. This aspect tests your sense of integrity and right and wrong. Either one of you may resist these forces and choose not to take on the challenge but if you do, you will be stronger for it. This aspect requires a level of maturity and acceptance of certain responsibilities. No wimps need apply. If you focus only on the difficulties between you they will loom larger. If you focus on resolving  your problems with mutual respect, your relationship will grow stronger and more stable over time. You have something important to accomplish together. Whatever the developmental level that you are able to reach, this relationship will create an impact that will not soon be forgotten.

Bill's Sun Square Hillary Rodham's Jupiter:

In your life together, you will feel compelled, sometimes driven, to seek adventure, learning and travel experiences. The impulse of the aspect is to exceed limitation and to maintain the freedom to explore new experiences. These desires can at times clash with the more stable requirements of a relationship. If you can adventure together often enough, the times when one of you wants to go it alone may be tolerable. If not, this will be one of your issues. Together, you will desire to challenge yourselves and each other to reach new heights and test your abilities to exceed expectations. It’s possible you will engage in sports and physical activity in general, which will alleviate the restlessness of this aspect. Above all, you want variety and will resist boredom. Reckless excessiveness is more of a pitfall with this aspect of Jupiter between your charts. Grandiosity and ego-excesses can get in the way of harmonious relationships with yourselves or others. The choices you make will teach you wisdom faster than you can believe is possible. You want to live the good life but you may not have the resources immediately at hand. Refrain from over-extending yourselves unnecessarily either financially, physically, emotionally or spiritually. Otherwise, your mutual goodwill could erode into blaming each other for spending your resources and feelings of being overwhelmed.

Bill's Moon Opp Hillary Rodham's Venus:

Although there is a natural appreciation and liking of each other, there will be times that you won’t appreciate each other’s habits. Or possibly your values are in conflict. Those will be difficult and frustrating times. You may feel undervalued or misunderstood by your partner. The affection is still there but you’ll have to work on the breach or any damage to the self-esteem of your partner. It’s important that you put effort into cherishing the good qualities that each of you have, even though they may be very different from your own. When you are in conflict make sure you don’t disparage your partner just because you don’t like their choices. Be sure to give credit where and when it is due. It’s easy to take the good graces and support of your partner for granted but it does harm to the goodwill of your relationship, long term. The purpose of this aspect is to teach you cooperation, negotiation and compromise.

Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You

These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other and simply understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or problems.


Bill's Moon in Taurus, and Hillary Rodham's is in Pisces:

You are each blessed with a natural, easygoing and similar emotional style. You share some of the same rhythms and habits that will make daily contact more comfortable for each of you. Timing will not be as much of an issue, in that you can more easily and quickly respond to each other's emotional levels of excitement or energy and empathize with each other's disappointments, in ways that both of you feel met by the other. You can fire each other up and cool each other down because you'll frequently be riding the same emotional wave. You're able to support each other when feelings overflow. Basically, you both seek the same kinds of comforts and can relate easily to each other's peculiarities. In fact, you can accommodate your partner's idiosyncrasies with humor and even turn them into jokes that become part of the private fabric of your relationship life. If you share living space, you are likely to have domestic tastes that match easily. Environments that comfort and support you are more often than not, shared by your partner. Social connections and the types of people you choose to interact with will be similar. And you will appreciate the fact that you love the same interests and are able to share and enjoy numerous different activities together. This is not to say that at times you won't be totally perplexed by each other's reactions because there are other factors in each of your personalities that must be considered. Also, if your upbringing is very different, it will add to the emotional adjustments you will need to make. Still, on the whole it seems easier for the two of you to make these adjustments.

Bill's Mercury in Leo, and Hillary Rodham's is in Scorpio:

Although you are attracted to each other, there are times when one of you will have great difficulty in figuring out where the other is coming from and what she (or he) is trying to tell you. Your styles of communication can be very different. The premises upon which you base your reasoning or the logic you use will often perplex your partner. Especially if you have to decide on projects or activities together, your differences can quickly become an issue between you. Talking things through slowly, step by step, will help each of you to understand how the other arrived at his (or her) opinion or conclusion. This will take patience but in the end will be worth it. What's more, by taking the time to really understand how your partner is thinking, you can not only learn something important about your partner but also get a different perspective yourself. You will also learn how your communication affects others, since your partner is probably not the only one who can't always understand what you're trying to say or figure out your logic. You've attracted this kind of relationship exactly for the purpose of fine tuning your thought processes and becoming more adept and flexible in the ways you have of communicating with others. This will be doubly useful if you are in a business that requires writing or regularly communicating with others.

Chapter 3: Fulfilling Each Other's Partnerships Needs

These aspects explain how you meet each other's desires and dreams in special partnerships and one-on-one relationships. These aspects are based on what your natal chart describes that you're looking for in any major relational interaction.

Hillary Rodham's Neptune Conj Bill's 7th house ruler, Mars:

Your effect on each other is subtle and not easily defined, certainly not at first. There could be feelings of disorientation or even confusion in each other’s presence. You may receive or send mixed messages and not know how to interpret each other’s signals. Excess shyness or sensitivity could be the culprit. On the other hand, it could simply be a matter of not wanting to make any commitments and leave your options open. Whatever the reason for indecision, this aspect is meant to force you to face the consequences and pain stemming from a pattern of indecisiveness. The intent of this aspect is also to separate true intuition from avoidance or blind spots you may have as you go about your life tasks. This aspect can generate fantasies and dreams, and your life can be richly decorated with the expressions of your creativity. You can inspire each other’s dreams and be understanding of each other’s feelings of insecurity, especially around performance. Having a spiritual practice or belief will help your relationship keep to its course and keep your dreams blended with a workable reality, without too many unpleasant diversions. The arts, music or dancing can allow you to express what may be difficult to put into words.

Bill's Sun Square Hillary Rodham's 7th house ruler, Jupiter:

A heightened joyousness and optimism is a central part of your relationship. You have the capacity to make each other very happy. Both of you will want an expansive, "good life" filled with many choices and opportunities. There is, however, a tendency to be overly enthusiastic, exaggerate and be potentially careless with important details. Large ideas and concepts will be more appealing to you, so perhaps you should leave the important details to others. Developing your major life goals will be an overriding concern. There is a distinct expansiveness and even a willingness to take risk for your interests. The intent of this aspect is development and growth to express fully your personality and creative individuality. This development takes place through making wise choices and exercising discrimination to determine the truly positive experiences from those that are a waste of your time. You can create opportunities because of the positive attitude you express but avoid being opportunistic. Receiving recognition for what you do best is important for your long-term satisfaction. Continued learning and experiencing of life through travel, sports other challenges is probably a mainstay of your relationship.

Bill's Saturn Trine Hillary Rodham's 7th house ruler, Jupiter:

You are a good match for each other because one of you will curtail the excesses of the other and vice versa. Although you may not always enjoy your partner raining on your parade, over time you will see that there is something to be said for caution or planning ahead. Taking a second look at your quick impulsiveness can save you a heap of trouble in the long run. Certainly, you will have to negotiate when one of you feels too stifled by the endless planning of the other. Having separate projects will alleviate feeling restricted by the very different style of your partner. Taking turns planning and managing will also help. After a while, the two of you can get a rhythm going which will give you the best of both worlds -- opportunity and a plan to go along with it. One of you will always challenge the practicality of any project you pursue together, but this need not overshadow your enjoyment. Instead, it can support the long-range successful outcome of your endeavor. The intent of this aspect is to teach you balance and tame any runaway unbridled enthusiasm. It can also put some fun and spontaneity into a partner who otherwise is overly cautious or fearful of taking risks. You will need a commitment or contract that allows a certain amount of freedom to develop on individual paths and a healthy dose of adventure without constant legislation.

Bill's 7th house cusp Trine Hillary Rodham's 7th house ruler, Jupiter:

You are joyful when you are together. You genuinely like your partner’s energy and how you feel when you are together. One could say that you tend to bring out the best in each other. Enhancement, travel, learning, all things that advance and expand seem more important, as well as more likely, as a result of your partnership. The intent of this aspect is to allow the full expression of your personalities in the way you relate to each other, so that there is no mistaking what you mean to each other and how you influence each other. Your joyfulness and enthusiasm cannot be contained and naturally spills over to others who come into your circle. It will be difficult to contain your energy and you will seek others who are like-minded and want to explore the options and choices that life has to offer. Sports, philosophical debate or social banter can be some activities that stimulate your interest and allow you to express your desire for improvement as well as the ideas and opinions you’ve cultivated. There is a tendency to grab for the gusto, but taking your time with the important choices will be in your best interest and save you negative experiences and disappointments.  Be sure to take days and not minutes for those major life decisions and research fully to get the most up-to-date information.

Chapter 4: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes

This section interprets the closest connections between your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or central themes of your relationships and the reason you have come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life together.

Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included because these close connections pertain to the central learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly influenced by each other in the areas described. Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group, both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging ones. Another thing -- it's possible with both types of aspects that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression of each combination. This is the learning curve and this bestows wisdom.

Bill's Venus Conj Hillary Rodham's Neptune:

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme concerns sensitivity, compassion, forgiveness and the power of the unseen through symbols and imagination. There is a reverence and faith.

Challenging aspects: The other side of this hypersensitivity is the dislike of conflict, which can lead to various avoidance, neglect or substance abuse behaviors.  Learn to trust your intuition to keep you from questionable experiences. Although your feelings can be confused or conflicted or you can be plagued by doubts, seek to speak the truth in so far as you know it, to avoid giving your partner the wrong signals. Deliberate untruthfulness would be damaging to your long-term relationship.

Easier aspects: This aspect is gentle and hypersensitive. Together you will express a natural sweetness, kindness and caring for each other and the feelings of others. You will be blessed with an ability to understand and experience the special magic of life and a deeper understanding of its mysteries if you are open to this. Faith and a spiritual practice are important ingredients in your lives. It's possible you inspire others through the arts or through a service profession or community work.

Bill's Sun Sextile Hillary Rodham's Uranus (easier aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is to live an authentic, truthful life and also one that is exciting or entertaining. There is something unusual, original or creative in the way you apply yourselves to life. You will value your independence in thinking and lifestyle and you will seek friendships with others of like mind or causes to support with similar values.

Easier aspects: Your creative, fresh and individual style is likely to earn you many friendships. People enjoy that you say what you think and they like being able to count on your honesty. Because you are far-sighted and interested in the future, you will often be involved in innovative and progressive projects. Human rights and humanitarian, environmental concerns are also important to you.

Challenging aspects: You are likely to have a somewhat rebellious spirit and you attract controversy. In other words, you can become, in your community or group, catalysts for needed change. Sometimes your energy is too abrupt or disruptive and will not get you what you want, because others will be put off by your style. Learning to modify your energies and consider others' sensibilities will earn you more support. Sometimes there's good reason to riot. Other times you're simply being disruptive. You will have to determine when it's worthwhile breaking the rules or creating a scene. Your life will not be dull and, if you channel your energies responsibly, will be very innovative and creative.

Hillary Rodham's Sun Square Bill's Saturn (challenging aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is one of responsibility and credibility. You will likely be ambitious to achieve certain goals and work hard at self-improvement. Honing your skills and talents in order to gain the respect of your peers or community is important. With consistent effort, you can become experts and leaders in your field of endeavor.

Challenging aspects:  You are likely to have many struggles in your life together and, perhaps, more responsibility than most for children or parents or your careers. Although your successes are often hard-won, you are unlikely to give up, and your struggles can make you stronger. What's important is that you refuse to become negative or cynical if things take longer or are more difficult than you wanted. Maintaining your integrity in the midst of adversity will earn you the respect and trust of others, and with time and persistence, you will reach your goals.

Easier aspects:  In your relationship, you will seek security and stability for yourselves and anyone or anything else under your care and protection. You are organizers and will forge step-by-step plans to reach your goals. Others will admire your persistence and discipline. Because you enjoy being productive, or enjoy the benefits of working, there are times when you'll overwork yourselves. You will need to learn to balance your work time with relaxed, fun times. Although you seem to attract responsibility, it is also something you desire and you appear to handle it well, most of the time.